Reflections
This is the notebook side of the site. Posts show up when something is asking to be written down before I forget it, or when I want to think out loud about whatever I’ve been turning over lately. There’s no schedule and no formal arc, just thoughts I want to keep close.
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Mutti and the motherhood I didn’t expect
Read more →: Mutti and the motherhood I didn’t expectI never wanted to have a baby. I still don’t. What I’ve been learning since we adopted Mutti is that caring for her isn’t all that different from caring for a small human, and that some of what I’d assumed required children has shown up anyway. My happiness has somehow become tied to hers. When…